On the day of my wedding, my sister in law gave me a white lace handkerchief. She told me to tuck it into the sleeve of my gown to wipe tears, or to hold it folded in the palms of my hands in case they became sweaty. She also suggested I turn it into a bonnet for my first child to wear the day he or she was brought home from the hospital.

Thankfully, I took her advice and carried the handkerchief with me down the aisle. I decided to hold it in my palm, which helped me grip my bouquet, and it was also put to use dabbing a few tears. Though I decided not to craft it into a bonnet,  I do intend to give it to my son’s bride on the day of their wedding, and I hope the tradition continues for many generations.

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